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No, You’re Not Bad With Money, You Just Have Kids

January 24, 2017 Rachel Ferrucci Leave a Comment

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Being a parent is tough, and if you don’t believe me, well you just try it. I’m not talking about the difficulty of emotional issues here either but rather the financial burden. Now don’t get me wrong, I wouldn’t give up my kids for the world, but they sure do cost a lot of money. Parents have financial issues that other people simply don’t have to deal with. However, there are easy ways to handle any problems you face with money as a full-time parent. I’m going to show you how and hopefully, take some of the pressure off your bank account. Let’s start by thinking about little spends that can have big consequences.

 

A Lot Seems Like A Little

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How much did you spend on Christmas last year? You might have just put a couple of hundred towards presents which isn’t that much at all. But it can still put pressure on your finances due to other unforeseen costs. For instance, you might not have been prepared for heavy winter heating bills. Maybe there’s a problem that needs sorting out with your car. All these little things will add up and leave you desperate for money and in need of a cash advance. The way to avoid this is to make sure that you always take into account problems with future finances, even when you’re spending a little. But what happens when the amounts get bigger.

 

We’re All Going On A Family Holiday

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Think about how much you used to spend on holidays when you were single and solo. You could probably get a luxury getaway for what, a couple of thousand? But things change when you have kids, don’t they? If you want to go on a proper family holiday with the same level of luxury, you could need to save over four times that amount. Don’t believe that? Well, can we agree that Disney World Florida is probably the ultimate family holiday for parents that are daring enough? If we can, an average holiday stay there for two weeks costs well over ten grand. That’s if you get one of the average value hotels. But even if you get a low value stay, you’ll still be spending up to ten ground due to expenses when you’re over there. Remember, you won’t just want to visit Disney. You’ll also want to hit Universal, Legoland and a couple of the water parks. You might even want to travel as far as the Busch Gardens.

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So, how do you get around the massive expense of a family holiday? Well, depending on your income, you might just kiss goodbye to the luxury. Instead, spend it somewhere a tad more conservative because it’s appreciating time with your family that matters, right? Or, you may want to think about finding ways to cheapen the deal. For instance, you might find that it’s cheaper if you book a package deal holiday online. That way, you can cut costs, but you probably won’t get your dream vacation. There’s a problem that relates specifically to Disney there too. If you want a Disney holiday, you have to book it through them. Otherwise, you miss out on some of the best offers such as extra magic hours. There are other ways to lower the cost too, like traveling at a less popular time or waiting until kids go free. But you have to remember, the reasons kids occasionally get to go free is that the age limit means they’ll miss most of the rides. Meanwhile, if it is cheaper at certain times of year, it’s because the weather is poor and you might spend most of the time under shelter. For instance, you can visit a place like Disney in January. But, you’ll find half of the rides are closed for refurbishments as is one of the waterparks. Instead, we think your best answer to this financial issue is learning to save more sensible.

 

Saving Up Sure Is Hard To Do

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We know there are probably plenty of parents who find trying to save an absolute nightmare. No sooner have you saved up some money, you have to spend it again. Meanwhile, your next door neighbor is whizzing off on a cruise in the Bahamas and adding an extension to their home. What are you doing wrong? You’re probably just spending more than you need to in the wrong areas. People who are good with money know how to cut costs in areas that they don’t really care about. For instance, the classic would be home bills. By cutting down home bills, you can save money without it affecting your enjoyment in life. You’re not getting rid of your weekly family trip to the cinema or the date night you share with your partner. Instead, you’re just spending less time in the shower and making sure that you do switch off the lights when you leave a room. You’ll be surprised the kind of impact that can have on your bills at the end of the year. Of course, you can make lifestyle choices that save money and at first seem like a big deal.

 

For instance, there are plenty of parents who are pressured to see all the big kids movies at the cinema. Do you really need to, though? After all, they’ll be out online in just a few months, and most people find watching films at home with the family more enjoyable. It’s not like there isn’t plenty to keep them happy on Netflix and kids channels until then. Think about it, the average cost of heading to the cinema for a four-person family is sixty dollars. That’s usually because you’re aiming for a bigger screen with the added on 3D. So, even if you only see one film at the cinema a month, you could save sixty dollars. That’s sixty dollars you could put to something you would all really enjoy for a lot longer than ninety minutes.

Of course, overspending isn’t your only issue because you also need to think about the future. In this case we’re not just thinking about next year’s vacation but rather bigger spends such as your kids college tuition.

 

Look Forward, The Future Is Already Here

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Here’s a scary fact. You don’t have as much time with your kids as you think. You might think that you get eighteen years before they head off to college but it’s not true. Most of that time is spent in school with only a few weeks through the year to spend with you. Plus, by the time they enter the teens, they’ll be more interested in seeing their friends during this free time. That means the time when they head off to college is going to be here sooner than you realize and you need to prepare because it’s another massive expense. Right now, you probably realize that you don’t have enough money to pay for college tuition which is okay. You just need to start thinking more seriously about investments.

 

Lots of options to consider here but the basic level is a savings account. With a savings account, you can earn some money without even thinking about it. Have a look on the market and find out which accounts offer the highest levels of interest. If you do this, you’ll quickly discover it’s not enough. So you may also want to think about bigger investments like property.

 

By purchasing property and selling it on, you could increase your money quickly. When you’re investing in property, it’s important to be smart. You find it easier to lease out something you own rather than looking for that fast sale. But an investment like this could provide the money you need for college tuition.

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About Rachel Ferrucci

Lifestyle writer, blogger, and social media influencer, specializing in travel, beauty, food, fashion, and family. As an empty nester I'm finding adventure around every corner to live life like it's my last day. Don't be surprised to find me in stilettos waving a light saber while playing with my grandchildren! Rachel Ferrucci

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