Has your relationship lost a bit of its love, sex, and magic? There comes a time in every relationship when you have to light a new match to get the fire going again. We have four things to reignite your relationship and quick!!

Kick off the night by bringing sexy back to your relationship. Here are four things that you can do that will ignite new passion between you and your partner.

• Schedule “we time” with your partner. We know that it is important to schedule “me time”, but there also has to be an effort for “we time”. This may not sound fun or spontaneous at first but sometimes it has to be done. If you find yourself without ample time to get lovin’ in with your partner, put it in your schedule. It is far better to schedule quality time together than spending no time together at all.

• Make dinner time sensual. While you may have kids in the room it doesn’t mean that dinner time can’t be sexy. Play on some jazz, pull out the wine, and have your man take part in making dinner with you. If he burns everything he touches, have him mix up the salad, mash the potatoes, or chop some veggies. Food is sensual and opens up emotions for people, so use a bit of forkplay for your foreplay.

• Read your lover erotica in bed. If you like to read in bed, put the romance book aside and select a book of erotica. Make sure that your partner gets a glance of the book cover so that it peaks some curiosity. He will definitely want to know more about what you are reading. Let him experience the book with you by having him come close as you seductively read to him. Remember to use your phone sex voice.

• Go to a burlesque show or strip club. On your next “date night” surprise your partner by taking him to a burlesque show or strip club. More women are starting to frequent strip clubs so you will not be out of place. Also stripper’s love it when women are around because they feel more comfortable with women. You may end up having more fun than him. Burlesque may be more of your bag of tea if you do not want to go to a strip club. The dancers do not take off all of their clothes and there is more of a story line when they dance.

Now get out there and bring your sexy back! How do you plan on bringing your sexy back?