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5 Ways To Pay Your Bills When You Can’t Pay Your Bills

June 7, 2017 Rachel Ferrucci Leave a Comment

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Being a mom is one of the most rewarding jobs in the world. There is nothing like watching your kids grow into adults and find their way in the world. And, if they show a little bit of gratitude along the way, it’s a bonus!

 

However, the road isn’t always a smooth one. When you have a family, you have to make sacrifices to get by in life. Sometimes, that means you don’t always have the cash flow you need to pay the creditors. And let’s face it – every family has debts and bills to pay.

 

So, should you just ignore your responsibilities and hope they go away? No, because nothing good ever comes from ignorance. Instead, you should look to tackle them head on with the following mom hacks. Like every mother knows, where there is a will there is a way.

 

#1: Talk To Creditors Early

 

The first thing you will likely do is panic. You will look at what you owe, compare the debts to your finances, and realize you’re in trouble. But, instead of taking action, the temptation to worm your way free is too strong. Although it’s commendable, it is also a bad move because it only makes the hole you’re in bigger. The best option is to speak to your debtors as soon as possible to raise their awareness. Sure, there is a chance that they will turn you away and not make an effort to help. But, that is unlikely. After all, it is their money and they want as much of it back as possible. That’s why companies have backups such as a payment plan. Some even lower or waive the interest to get the ball rolling, but they won’t unless you communicate.

 

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#2: Prioritize Debts

 

If you don’t know much about outstanding amounts, it’s possible to assume that they are all the same. A debt is a debt in the eyes of the law, right? Wrong. As it turns out, the authorities and the creditors can be pretty lenient regarding particular arrears. But, there are others that don’t allow them to show any sympathy. These are called secured debts, and they are the ones you need to prioritize above everything else. The reason is simple: they will take away whatever is secured. Banks, for example, often link a property to the loan so as to get their money back. In that case, you can say goodbye to your home. No one wants to be homeless, which is why secured debts are significant. When push comes to shove, unsecured debts are wiped away anyway.

 

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#3: Budget Like A Pro

 

Recognizing that you need to pay back one debt over another is the easy part. Keeping up with the payments is the hardest, and it’s what got you into this mess in the first place. Thankfully, there is a simple solution. It’s known as budgeting, and it acts like a road map on the journey to relief. As soon as you know what to prioritize, it’s a good idea to work out what you owe. At the moment, the overall amount isn’t an issue because you probably won’t have the money to pay it off regardless. What is essential is the monthly minimum amount. Start by keeping it in mind at the beginning of every month so that you know your goal. Then, divvy up the rest of your finances so that you know how much money you have to live on. Divide the amount by the total number of days and that is your daily budget. If the number looks small, try and cut back on luxuries you don’t need. Energy output, for instance, is a big money spinner if you know how to go green.

 

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#4: Short-Term Loan

 

The idea of a payday loan is often enough to send shivers down the spines of moms around the world. Too many adults have heard horror stories of families that tried to borrow their way out and made things worse. Of course, it is possible and it could happen to you. However, a payday loan is a viable option as long as you take the necessary precautions. The first is to lend money from a company that doesn’t charge extortionate levels of interest. If you don’t know how to sort the men from the boys, just click here to find out more about payday lenders. Secondly, and most importantly, you need to understand the fine print. People often find themselves in a bad position because they didn’t read the agreement before they signed. Obviously, this leaves you vulnerable, which is why due diligence is imperative. Finally, try and come up with a plan to pay back the loan quickly. The longer you owe the money, the more it will cost you in the long-term.

 

#5: Consolidate

 

Your final option is to combine all of your debts into one balance. In layman’s terms, you take out one big loan, such as a second mortgage, to pay off all of your arrears. Then, all you have left is one debt that you owe. In theory, this tactic does make monthly payments a lot easier as it tends to lower the average interest rate. Plus, it means you only have to focus on one amount and most people find that easier than juggling various loans. Of course, there are negatives, the main being you will lose the house if you can’t keep up with the consolidation loan. However, the pros often outweigh the cons. After all, it might be the only way out depending on your situation. Whatever you do, you should avoid credit cards like the plague. For one thing, no company will lend you enough to pay off a big sum. Also, the interest rates are usually harsher.

 

Do any of the above seem doable? If the answer is no, the last thing to do is file for bankruptcy. Individuals can file for Chapter 7 or 13 to alleviate their financial troubles, and it sometimes the best choice. You might have zero credit, but you will have a clean slate.  

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About Rachel Ferrucci

Lifestyle writer, blogger, and social media influencer, specializing in travel, beauty, food, fashion, and family. As an empty nester I'm finding adventure around every corner to live life like it's my last day. Don't be surprised to find me in stilettos waving a light saber while playing with my grandchildren! Rachel Ferrucci

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